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23rd June 2019 at 9:03 pm #71518
@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
Rubbish total rubbish can I ask how many people you personally know who have done it?
Have you ever had to clean up a mates blood that was everywhere?
Have you ever had to get on a chair and unhang your mate?
Pathetic comments.
I wonder why I don’t post much now.
I found my best mate with half his head and his brains blown all over a tree stump, with our father’s hunting rifle next to him when I was 19 years old. 18 years of close friendship, and not a single fucking hint of anything.
He was a popular guy, popular with both guys and girls. He didn’t have a single worry in the world. The last thing anyone ever heard of him was when he borrowed my cell phone to call his girlfriend. He broke up with her and nobody saw him for a week, until myself and 3 other guys were doing an orientation run in the forest.He wasn’t just my best mate. He was my only sibling. I know everything about what it’s like to lose someone to suicide. So please, shut the fuck up.
23rd June 2019 at 9:05 pm #71520@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
I have spent my life in and around psychiatry. I was a psychiatric nurse for years, a Samaritan and am currently a mental health first aider. So I can say with some authority that what you say is total bollocks.
Sometimes people say nothing, tidy their affairs and jog off without anyone realising anything was wrong. Most often however, there are plenty of signs and warnings. They do tell others of their intentions. Although occasionally such warnings can be used to manipulate others, more often they are desperate individuals who need help. Suicide rates are high amongst addicted gamblers, so if any forum member says such a thing chances are they aren’t just pulling an angle.
A statement of intent should always be taken seriously.
123rd June 2019 at 9:09 pm #71522@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
I have spent my life in and around psychiatry. I was a psychiatric nurse for years, a Samaritan and am currently a mental health first aider. So I can say with some authority that what you say is total bollocks.
Sometimes people say nothing, tidy their affairs and jog off without anyone realising anything was wrong. Most often however, there are plenty of signs and warnings. They do tell others of their intentions. Although occasionally such warnings can be used to manipulate others, more often they are desperate individuals who need help. Suicide rates are high amongst addicted gamblers, so if any forum member says such a thing chances are they aren’t just pulling an angle.
A statement of intent should always be taken seriously.
Suppose we shud show a bit more mercy . Think people are pissed off this weekend . Because it’s the weekend before pay day
23rd June 2019 at 9:15 pm #71524@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
Rubbish total rubbish can I ask how many people you personally know who have done it?
Have you ever had to clean up a mates blood that was everywhere?
Have you ever had to get on a chair and unhang your mate?
Pathetic comments.
I wonder why I don’t post much now.
I found my best mate with half his head and his brains blown all over a tree stump, with our father’s hunting rifle next to him when I was 19 years old. 18 years of close friendship, and not a single fucking hint of anything. He was a popular guy, popular with both guys and girls. He didn’t have a single worry in the world. The last thing anyone ever heard of him was when he borrowed my cell phone to call his girlfriend. He broke up with her and nobody saw him for a week, until myself and 3 other guys were doing an orientation run in the forest.
He wasn’t just my best mate. He was my only sibling. I know everything about what it’s like to lose someone to suicide. So please, shut the fuck up.
Listen it sounds like this is a touchy subject for you mate. not all cases are the same and i only wanted to be sure as to protect that individual who for all we know could be genuine. I definitely don’t want anything to happen to anyone and certain if you look at it this way for maybe that guys friend to find him the same way you found yours.
I’m sure this is a resonable request.
23rd June 2019 at 9:18 pm #71525@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
Rubbish total rubbish can I ask how many people you personally know who have done it?
Have you ever had to clean up a mates blood that was everywhere?
Have you ever had to get on a chair and unhang your mate?
Pathetic comments.
I wonder why I don’t post much now.
I found my best mate with half his head and his brains blown all over a tree stump, with our father’s hunting rifle next to him when I was 19 years old. 18 years of close friendship, and not a single fucking hint of anything. He was a popular guy, popular with both guys and girls. He didn’t have a single worry in the world. The last thing anyone ever heard of him was when he borrowed my cell phone to call his girlfriend. He broke up with her and nobody saw him for a week, until myself and 3 other guys were doing an orientation run in the forest.
He wasn’t just my best mate. He was my only sibling. I know everything about what it’s like to lose someone to suicide. So please, shut the fuck up.
Firstly sorry for your loss, and what you experienced in really am.
But your post is wrong yes at times people don’t show any signs but many many do.
No need to to tell me to shut the fuck up is there?
You seem to struggle somewhat on the Forum of late, putting up silly pathetic childish posts.
Your also full of anger do you want a Hug?
Keep smiling keep believing keep the faith.
Much love x
23rd June 2019 at 9:20 pm #71526@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
I have spent my life in and around psychiatry. I was a psychiatric nurse for years, a Samaritan and am currently a mental health first aider. So I can say with some authority that what you say is total bollocks.
Sometimes people say nothing, tidy their affairs and jog off without anyone realising anything was wrong. Most often however, there are plenty of signs and warnings. They do tell others of their intentions. Although occasionally such warnings can be used to manipulate others, more often they are desperate individuals who need help. Suicide rates are high amongst addicted gamblers, so if any forum member says such a thing chances are they aren’t just pulling an angle.
A statement of intent should always be taken seriously.
Sure there are some who say it to someone, but it’s EXTREMELY rare to confide in someone they don’t know and have never met. Announcing it on a public forum is not the typical behaviour of someone who plans to go through with it.
You said “occasionally such warnings can be used to manipulate others” – This is just plain wrong – Such warnings are used waaaaaaaaaay more regularly to manipulate others than to have the intent of going through with it.
23rd June 2019 at 9:23 pm #71528You’re a psychology expert now too? Fuck me you’re boring mate.
As usual, you think your opinions are facts. *edited seedy* nice to see you back mate 😀
23rd June 2019 at 9:28 pm #71529@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
Rubbish total rubbish can I ask how many people you personally know who have done it?
Have you ever had to clean up a mates blood that was everywhere?
Have you ever had to get on a chair and unhang your mate?
Pathetic comments.
I wonder why I don’t post much now.
I found my best mate with half his head and his brains blown all over a tree stump, with our father’s hunting rifle next to him when I was 19 years old. 18 years of close friendship, and not a single fucking hint of anything. He was a popular guy, popular with both guys and girls. He didn’t have a single worry in the world. The last thing anyone ever heard of him was when he borrowed my cell phone to call his girlfriend. He broke up with her and nobody saw him for a week, until myself and 3 other guys were doing an orientation run in the forest.
He wasn’t just my best mate. He was my only sibling. I know everything about what it’s like to lose someone to suicide. So please, shut the fuck up.
Listen it sounds like this is a touchy subject for you mate. not all cases are the same and i only wanted to be sure as to protect that individual who for all we know could be genuine. I definitely don’t want anything to happen to anyone and certain if you look at it this way for maybe that guys friend to find him the same way you found yours.
I’m sure this is a resonable request.
Yeah, whatever, we can leave it at that. After I’ve told off the guy under you for being a bitch. Hang on.
@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
Rubbish total rubbish can I ask how many people you personally know who have done it?
Have you ever had to clean up a mates blood that was everywhere?
Have you ever had to get on a chair and unhang your mate?
Pathetic comments.
I wonder why I don’t post much now.
I found my best mate with half his head and his brains blown all over a tree stump, with our father’s hunting rifle next to him when I was 19 years old. 18 years of close friendship, and not a single fucking hint of anything. He was a popular guy, popular with both guys and girls. He didn’t have a single worry in the world. The last thing anyone ever heard of him was when he borrowed my cell phone to call his girlfriend. He broke up with her and nobody saw him for a week, until myself and 3 other guys were doing an orientation run in the forest.
He wasn’t just my best mate. He was my only sibling. I know everything about what it’s like to lose someone to suicide. So please, shut the fuck up.
Firstly sorry for your loss, and what you experienced in really am.
But your post is wrong yes at times people don’t show any signs but many many do.
No need to to tell me to shut the fuck up is there?
You seem to struggle somewhat on the Forum of late, putting up silly pathetic childish posts.
Your also full of anger do you want a Hug?
Keep smiling keep believing keep the faith.
Much love x
Struggle? On a gambling forum? What the fuck are you on about? Nevermind, don’t answer that. Not planning on replying to you again anyway.
You’re getting anger from words written on the internet. That’s a huge misinterpretation. I’m generally a happy guy, and my choice of words is a conscious choice to get rid of the stigma against “bad words”.
Ever heard the term “swear like a sailor”? I’m a sailor.
23rd June 2019 at 9:29 pm #7153023rd June 2019 at 9:30 pm #71531You’re a psychology expert now too? Fuck me you’re boring mate.
As usual, you think your opinions are facts. *edited seedy* nice to see you back mate ?
I’ve got a lot of knowledge about a lot of things. I find information to be interesting, so I seek it and learn from it at all times. It’s one of the reasons why I never stick it out for a long time in any profession – Once I’ve learned most of what there is to learn, it becomes boring.
23rd June 2019 at 9:31 pm #71534You’re a psychology expert now too? Fuck me you’re boring mate.
As usual, you think your opinions are facts. Just fuck off.
He is basing his view on his heartbreaking experience, perfectly understandable to be fair. But statistics would show that he is not correct.
Again sorry for your loss Awesome, you no doubt will tell me to fuck off again, but have you ever had councilling?
The thing is I don’t know what you do for a job, but you certainly don’t know what i do for job!!!
Stop being so Angry buddy it won’t get you anywhere.
Much love x
123rd June 2019 at 9:54 pm #71540@Seedy never throughout history has anyone announced they’re gonna do the unthinkable. That’s the first clue that they’re not gonna do it. This is basic human psychology on high school level.
Saying they’re contemplating something like that is clear cut signs of narcissistic abuse to try to make others feel bad about what they did themselves. It’s psycopathic traits, like guys saying they’re gonna off themselves if their girlfriend leaves them
Someone who’s actually gonna go through with something like that spends their time getting their shit sorted before they do it. They paint the white picket fence, they pay the bills, they tidy the house, they do everything so they don’t leave a mess for the ones they leave behind.
People who leave us behind don’t leave a chaos. They leave in silence, more often than not without any explanation.
Rubbish total rubbish can I ask how many people you personally know who have done it?
Have you ever had to clean up a mates blood that was everywhere?
Have you ever had to get on a chair and unhang your mate?
Pathetic comments.
I wonder why I don’t post much now.
I had to comment on this after staying quiet for most of the day. I know 2 people who committed suicide, one being my ex and the other being my partners cousin. These kind of posts really hit home because no one thinks of what people are or have been going through. I never heard once from either of the people I lost to suicide that they wanted to do it, but I think people who say they want to is crying for help. I would rather help someone who feels like this than risk them trying to end their life. I know you’ve left the forum for what ever reason after reading another post, but I hope you see it. Please don’t be so judgemental and be a little bit more understanding. Troll or not, I don’t want someone coming on to this forum looking for help and feeling suicidal and then seeing a post like yours. I’ll shut up now, but I hope its opened your mind a little bit to how many people have been through it, because I bet I’m not the only one on the forum who’s lost people to suicide.
123rd June 2019 at 9:56 pm #71543Awesome, that wasnt meant for you but I think I referenced a post you made in that. Got the reply thing wrong, sorry ?
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