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[Realwhiskers WANTED $23 Blocked]

I can afford 486 a month, just sadly over Christmas a personal matter arised that wasn’t expected and now I can’t make the first payment which they won’t defer. I contacted my personal loans and they didn’t seem too bad if I’m honest, all payday loans agreed to enroll with my stepchange plan – so I contacted the payday loan companies to explain its only for the first month I can’t pay and explained why and now they’re knocking at the door and all sorts. Horrible.

[StuartK91 WANTED $27 Outlaw]

My advice is I feel you should try take on everyones advice as everyone has given lots of good bits and pieces for you moving forward. It seems as if your glass is always half empty and keep shutting people off saying you’ve tried this and that but there isn’t much else people can do unless you are willing to do things yourself. If you feel alone and would like a chat about something try starting a topic other than the my life is shit spiel.

And always remember, The night is darkest just before the dawn.

[Realwhiskers WANTED $23 Blocked]

I do agree. And I am trying hence why I signed up to stepchange and got all payments together. What happened over Christmas I didn’t expect to happen.

[Ha Hacko1 WANTED $181 Outlaw]

Realwhiskers wrote:

I can afford 486 a month, just sadly over Christmas a personal matter arised that wasn’t expected and now I can’t make the first payment which they won’t defer. I contacted my personal loans and they didn’t seem too bad if I’m honest, all payday loans agreed to enroll with my stepchange plan – so I contacted the payday loan companies to explain its only for the first month I can’t pay and explained why and now they’re knocking at the door and all sorts. Horrible.

Correct me if I’m wrong but in a previous post you stated that you had an unexpected house issue and now it’s a personal problem, which is it.

[Realwhiskers WANTED $23 Blocked]

It was in the house, still a personal issue too. Not something I want to post on here really.

[li little1large1 WANTED $43 Outlaw]

I think maybe some are being a tad harsh on the lad, I have spoken to him via text quite a lot since his post, he seems to me genuine enough an has never once asked me to bail him out of borrow money. He asked me how he can contact “Superlou” a he wanted to speak to him, as there is no private message facility on this forum ( why is that Bandit,Speedy,Spider ?)

I suggested the only way to maybe contact him was to put a post up, so if people want to have a go at me it’s fine, but don’t go mad at the lad.

I fully understand poeple saying they are in more debt etc, but last time I looked there is not a competition to see who is in the most debt currently running is there?

He is young and stuck and worried all perfectly acceptable in my book, I’m 44 an ex Heroin addict an ex gambler and lots of shit, I got myself out of my problems, but we are all different aren’t we?

Yes of course we might be having the wool pulled over our eyes, I feel we are not though on this occasion.

 

 

[Haz40 WANTED $1,167 Outlaw]

You still didn’t answer my question though did anyone on this forum pay this months bill. Your last post on the thread you starting called LIFE you asked super lou to pay this months bill. There was no reply. Fast forward couple of days you start topic asking for whereabouts of this person. Am i just been suspicious?

[li little1large1 WANTED $43 Outlaw]

Haz40 wrote:

You still didn’t answer my question though did anyone on this forum pay this months bill. Your last post on the thread you starting called LIFE you asked super lou to pay this months bill. There was no reply. Fast forward couple of days you start topic asking for whereabouts of this person. Am i just been suspicious?

Hello mate read my above post it answers your question!!!!

[andywilliams1187 WANTED $398 Blocked]

little1large1 wrote:

Haz40 wrote:

You still didn’t answer my question though did anyone on this forum pay this months bill. Your last post on the thread you starting called LIFE you asked super lou to pay this months bill. There was no reply. Fast forward couple of days you start topic asking for whereabouts of this person. Am i just been suspicious?

Hello mate read my above post it answers your question!!!!

People are trying to help the lad as much as possible, lots of good advice has been given across multiple different threads. His age is actually a major benefit as there is plenty of time for him to.sort it out. I’ve said before I wish I had learnt my lessons at 19 rather than later on when I did serious damage.

All the community can do is continue to offer sound advice which is what has been done.

Haz is just asking sensible questions

[Quazzi WANTED $149 Outlaw]

Realwhiskers wrote:

It was in the house, still a personal issue too. Not something I want to post on here really.

Dont really understand this? Youve opened up to us about your personal finances and your mental state on this forum, what is more personal than that? Did you get a pinapple stuck up your arse again?

[andywilliams1187 WANTED $398 Blocked]

You have to understand that although it may seam people are prying, it’s important for people to understand the whole situation to provide the best guidance. We can only offer help based on the information we are provided; when you trickle bits of information over various threads it’s very difficult to form an unbiased opinion and provide the right guidance

[Haz40 WANTED $1,167 Outlaw]

andywilliams1187 wrote:

You have to understand that although it may seam people are prying, it’s important for people to understand the whole situation to provide the best guidance. We can only offer help based on the information we are provided; when you trickle bits of information over various threads it’s very difficult to form an unbiased opinion and provide the right guidance

Spot on mate. Infact I think I was the first to offer a tenner towards the broken lap top which was declined. Then then there is a post asking to pay a near 500 quid bill. So it’s all a bit confusing. Decline a tenner then ask for 486.

[Quazzi WANTED $149 Outlaw]

Feels to my like its just the attention this guy wants, not advice. Who knows if he’s genuinely in this situation, we may never know.

Usually after he creates a thread he goes quiet for a few days, so we’ll wait til the next one.

[li little1large1 WANTED $43 Outlaw]

Haz asked why make this post Andy?

I answered he never would have made the post without my input, and indeed if there was a PM facility, I’m sure he would have gone down that route.

Anyway i still stand by it’s a genuine cry for help, I maybe wrong of course.

But to get grief on the post he made is wrong I feel, especially as it was NOT his idea.

[Fairzz WANTED $30 Outlaw]

Arriving casually late to the party… who the fuck is superlou?

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