Where can an ex-gambler borrow money when its urgent?!

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  • #90714
    Rhino74 WANTED $12
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    Your going to have to lose the house and go bankrupt. It will clear everything. And because you have a good job you can start again get rented accommodation save your extras from your good job. Then rebut a house. And there is no other way because you have an asset your house.

    #90716
    argyl53 WANTED $419
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    Yeah I’d echo Rhino above, I’m sorry to say it but sometimes you have to accept things the way they are. If you don’t know anyone who’s willing to lend you the money to clear your mortgage arrears in the next couple of weeks, or would sign as a guarantor on a loan, there’s just not a magic way out of that situation. I can certainly sympathise with the good wage, shit credit rating situation but I’ve just had to accept my credit rating is fucked for the next few years and the reality is it’s because I have a bad historical track record of making debt repayments in full and on time….I mean, why would a lender trust me now?

    On a more positive note, whatever happens, it’s not and is never too late for your life to get better. All these things, all these stresses and bills, even a house repossession; it’s not the end of the world. I’m not saying it doesn’t suck or doesn’t matter, but there are so many people who have done so much worse. Gambling addiction has taken lives, you can still rebuild yours.

    #90717
    Maher8430 WANTED $5
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    Contact your creditors – make a payment arrangement with your mortgage they will be fine with it honestly! With the payday loans just call them up explain that you are in financial difficulty. Maybe lie about your salary. Honestly it will be fine.
    get a Monzo account you can block all gambling transactions.

    #90721
    eejit101 WANTED $312
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    Step 1 – Remortgage the house. If you own 50% and i assume the house is worth more than 20k thats enough.

    Step 2 – pay off all the debts.

    Step 3 – Dont gamble.

     

    OR…. Take your 50k a year. Thats 4.2k a month. After taxes its like 3k. Spend 1.5k and pay off 1.7k. Youll be done in a year.

     

    Time to be sensible. Or you will jump off a bridge.

     

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    #90719
    k6kaysix WANTED $51
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    Why would a bank offer you a loan when you already have a loan (or several) and your credit report is screaming of various pay day loans, missed payments, gambling transactions…

    Look at it from their side and it becomes very obvious why they aren’t very keen to offer you any more dosh

    #90728
    Quazzi WANTED $149
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    eejit101 wrote:

    Step 1 – Remortgage the house. If you own 50% and i assume the house is worth more than 20k thats enough.

    Step 2 – pay off all the debts.

    Step 3 – Dont gamble.

     

    OR…. Take your 50k a year. Thats 4.2k a month. After taxes its like 3k. Spend 1.5k and pay off 1.7k. Youll be done in a year.

     

    Time to be sensible. Or you will jump off a bridge.

     

    Most straightforward, sensible advice you could listen to albeit a little blunt ? but when it comes to things like this there’s no beating around the bush.

    You’ll get there if you really want it.

    Good luck.

    #90732
    byronmiddleton WANTED $1
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    Have you tried the credit unions… they usually don’t credit score and they gave me a loan at very low interest when I already had 5ccjs and a very low credit score.  I never paid them for 2 years when my circumstances changed and they never added interest or charges (just finished paying them back now).

    Also can you not just get your missed mortgage payments added to term of mortgage (I’ve done that before as well)

    Council tax took me to court and just made arrangement at the court

    Water board  took me to court and secured there missed bills against my property (2 years or so behind).

    yup been there myself (not through gambling, missus left me with 3 young kids to bring up and I struggled going to work) – took ages to get sorted.

    on the plus side, there’s no debtors jail

    good luck

     

     

    #90739
    Alphadog WANTED $11
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    Best advice would be to remortgage. If you could find a lender. Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom to bounce  back up. But I think we can all see what could happen if you had money in your pocket.

    https://www.stepchange.org/debt-info/remortgaging-to-pay-off-debt.aspx

    #90750
    Winningbird WANTED $574
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    I’m really sorry you’re in this situation. Remortgaging might seem like an option, but you’re going to find it really hard to get a lender with your debt status. I would go down the route of bankruptcy, as hard as it would be. You’ve got CCJs and payday loans up to your neck with the sounds of things, and this is the only thing that will clear them all. If you think you have another option, try that first. Contact stepchange or whatever it’s called. Have a word with your bank, mortgage place, to see if theres anything that can be done, but be honest about your situation.

    Be honest with your wife about it all, so she can support you. I know it’s hard, but you can do it. Contact Gamcare, they offer counselling. Any sign of you getting help with make this process a little bit easier.

    #90754
    Anonymous WANTED $110
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    you should do house value if you 50% on mortgage is worth more than £20k £30k worth to Remortgaging,a longest you have job and money on house you should not have problem Remortgaging, Remortgaging is best way to go…going bankruptcy you will lose a lot and can’t do anything on next 3-5 years all banks will refuse to give you credits,best stay away from gambling and pay off,I will go with broker they know all tricks who to get best deals from banks

    #90730
    Rhino74 WANTED $12
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    Il be amazed if the bank remortgage.  Hes got bad credit.

    #90764
    Winningbird WANTED $574
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    I can’t see it either. I hope for OPs sake that someone can make it happen, but it’s going to be hard. Please don’t do anything stupid if you do manage to get your house remortgaged. Debt paid and nothing else.

    #90765
    Fishface WANTED $4
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    Hello instead of going bankrupt it might be worth considering a Iva, I was in one when my partner was seriously ill I got into debt paying everything on loans and credit cards as I was self employed,  and had to look after our 3 children with a mortgage, it was the best thing I ever did

    #90772
    Eightblack WANTED $446
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    Sorry mate you won’t find anyone willing to lend you money if you’ve got a shit load of gambling debt racked up.. The only option would be a guarantor loan but you need someone who trusts you to make the repayments, and from what you’ve described that isn’t likely….

    #90775
    Blackkbeauty WANTED $3
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    Please consider taking advice from https://www.consumeractiongroup.co.uk
    <span style=”font-size: 1rem;”>The people there are radical. You may not need a loan – there may be a better way . They can advise u how to resolve any debt problem They actively work with you to prioritise your debt payments  .You will be amazed.From my experience I was nearly at the court door – they helped including amending my letters .when I was scared they reassured .These  guys are amazing and can assist</span>

    Best of luck

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