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Thanks all, and thanks for the support network mate I don’t want raw cash and if you’re serious for the Chat support appreciate that mate.

 

sorry anyone who I’ve annoyed

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Thanks mate! I will do that Haz said first and offer them some money rather then 0 then they might be happier. I didn’t think of that I just didn’t have the payment so said I couldn’t pay I should offer them something first at least. Thanks :D. Will call them mon morn!

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I agree I worry far too much about little things. Overthinking them to make them bigger than they are I think is my issue

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I don’t want cash to my bank. And thanks mate will try again Monday and offer them something

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little1large1 wrote:

Are we finally getting somewhere I think maybe we are.

Well done Superlou you still up for a meet up when I go down and see Whiskers?

Would be a laugh! Better so all travel together when Steve organised a big meet maybe in summer?

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Reckon I should go Citizens advice mate? Do I tell them direct for someone to act on my behalf? Maybe they’d allow a deferral if someone knows about this stuff? I try fight my corner but don’t know much do always end up losing what I say

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REF number is 3243962 I will try again Monday like he said to see if they will change their mind. They were all good when I first said I’m signing with stepchange and they froze interest while they waiting for a letter from them. Since I said I can’t pay they aren’t like that but will try again Monday.

Jesus I don’t want cash in my bank basics I don’t know why you said it like that. That was harsh.

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Lending stream, MYJAR, Fernovo and peachy. All were very decent when I first issued I had a problem paying them a few months ago. Supportive to be honest, then they had to wait ages to receive the letters. Plan sorted and now I’m saying I can’t make the first payment so they’re not happy.

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I said earlier didn’t I? I was holding my pride when superlou offered to pay my first payment directly to stepchange to afford my first payment that I rejected.

I contacted them further and the companies to try sort it myself and they’ve knocked and won’t allow it. Other than marks and Spencer’s. I wanted to see if the offer was still on the table. I’m happy to refund the money back end of the year when my plan is up. Appreciate I’ve had a lot of guidance and advice that I neee. I swolloed my own pride and I’ve clearly got a lot to work on myself which I will do. Just need a step up, appreciate I don’t know anyone personally so that’s fair enough if that’s not an option anymore. Really didn’t mean to piss anyone off. Sorry

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Already have mate. M+S don’t really care and are supportive. Payday loans have knocked, I know they can’t do anything but what can I do when I’m bringing trouble to my door that I’ve made for myself I know.

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Sorry mate I didnt even click to see whom wrote it I just assumed it was a joke towards me. Really sorry mate. You’ve supported me massively.

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Listen I’ve cleared caused upstir and I’m genuinely sorry. I don’t have a support network to speak out so I used this for my problems. I agree it’s not what the forum is made for and I’m sorry for that.

Ive emailed Bandit to remove my account. I didn’t mean to piss anyone off or anything like that. Sorry to cause any annoyance to anyone

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Listen,

Fair enough some are sceptical, fair enough I maybe worded posts wrong and didn’t accept help at the time. Sometimes it was just nice to have a social impact with people and talk about my problems.

Im lost from gambling years ago financially, yes. Personal issues and all sorts. Maybe I’m an over thinker and bring it on myself, who knows. I don’t want all this, sorry if I have annoyed anyone honestly.

yeah stepchange told me they have no legal right to enter but sadly I live with my mum and she’s stressed that I’ve bought stress to her door. They may have no legal right but still do it.

I don’t deserve the posts someone made about socks though, that’s harsh. Everyone has issues yeah, but usually have people to speak with. I don’t so maybe I’ve used the forum to people I don’t know to do this but I mean no harm

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Evening all,

I think maybe the tv and laptop post was more of me wanting and seeking to just reach out and ask for help, I’m not sure I just feel lonely and lost I suppose. Realistically what are the uses of them when there are worse things in the world. I think I’m just lost as everything I seem to do, is all on a fincial basis, and with my head lost already it’s overwhelming at the fact everything at that minute in time that goes wrong is a cost I can’t sffprd. I then thought stepchange is a good idea, to bring all debts together and sadly stuff over Christmas means I cannot afford to make the first payment as I lost money elsewhere on not being able to work. My loans like marks and Spencer’s had no issue with my payments as in tough times they were helpful, whereas the payday lenders were already on hold for 2 months setting up my payment plan as they kept saying they haven’t received a letter etc. Then I called them directly and explained what happened and if I could start my payments next month they weren’t happy at all as they’ve already been waiting months and late payments/missed etc. So to say I’m finally in a payment plan and them accepting it to me saying sorry I cannot afford the first payment they weren’t happy with at all.

Superlou kindly offered to pay my first payment directly which at which at the time I was too prideful to accept whereas now thinking about it rather than cash and paying it I’d be forever greatful. It’s not money direct to my bank I’m after just the first payment.

Im lost I think in general, life, just everything because I’ve avoided my debt issues for so long I think. My budget to pay is based on nothing in my life going round, which I suppose after a few payments I should contact them to see if I can change that as sadly life doesn’t always go as planned. I really didn’t mean to cause a stir.

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Years ago I had a good setup. 50p I think it was, 4 stones. X1, reel 2 and 4 and wild help. Think it was like 700x. Was years ago though, when I’ve watched people’s videos since I haven’t seen anything good on it

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