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whoswho wrote:

Wow what a read. Glad your back on  track. Even more glad that there isn’t going to be a part 3 when you explain how you prostituted yourself to pay your son back ?

Thanks for the post, no i did not prostitute myself lol. I am going to do a follow up part 3 i feel its helping others even if they do not want to share there experiences on here its also helping me. Be good whoswho

[th themadchef WANTED $23 Outlaw]

GIRTH32 wrote:

Hi themadchef just thought would say thanks for sharing your story , also thanks for last night for offer9uou help and advice,  just a note to say been a long 24 hours told the wife everything and I mean everything about what I have gambled and borrowed these last 4 years whe the gambling gripped me hard so had a lot of soul searching and she is letting me stay but can’t gamble ever 7, did gamestop and she come with me to local bookies and had to self exclude there that was hard and emotional the women in there are lovely known them a lot longer before fobts grabbed me by the bollocks she took over the bank accounts as well and j the job I do taxi driver as the pin numbers for my logins do can check what I have earned so she will take over that as well start of a very long road now and with the support of my wife and 3 daughter’s who no it all will get there just emotionally drained having a few days of Till Tuesday then starting afresh , so once again thanks and I am glad you shared your story with us all and great you are doing well and great about 4lad living with you cheers everyone

Thanks for the post, no i did not prostitute myself lol. I am going to do a follow up part 3 i feel its helping others even if they do not want to share there experiences on here its also helping me. Be good whoswho

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GIRTH32 wrote:

Hi themadchef just thought would say thanks for sharing your story , also thanks for last night for offer9uou help and advice,  just a note to say been a long 24 hours told the wife everything and I mean everything about what I have gambled and borrowed these last 4 years whe the gambling gripped me hard so had a lot of soul searching and she is letting me stay but can’t gamble ever 7, did gamestop and she come with me to local bookies and had to self exclude there that was hard and emotional the women in there are lovely known them a lot longer before fobts grabbed me by the bollocks she took over the bank accounts as well and j the job I do taxi driver as the pin numbers for my logins do can check what I have earned so she will take over that as well start of a very long road now and with the support of my wife and 3 daughter’s who no it all will get there just emotionally drained having a few days of Till Tuesday then starting afresh , so once again thanks and I am glad you shared your story with us all and great you are doing well and great about 4lad living with you cheers everyone

Hi buddy, seen your post and i was thinking about you last night. I know you have done the right think, and to be honest i bet a weight has come off your shoulders. I can only imagine on how upset your wife is and i do hope with time it mends itself. Remember yesterday is the past and you can’t change the past, you can influence the future. Good luck and do let me know how it all goes.

[th themadchef WANTED $23 Outlaw]

Hi Winning Bird, thanks for the message. Yes my son now lives with me full time. Been living with me just over a year now. We have also have a dog. As for my ex were divorced but we get on really well.

[th themadchef WANTED $23 Outlaw]

Hi Girth just seen your message, you are doing the right thing by 1: coming clean you have a problem. 2:telling your wife (she will be pissed my kick you out but she will forgive you) 3: Yes self -excluding helps but also take time to do it properly. A bookies self exclusion is shit. https://self-exclusion.co.uk/ is where you need to go. It takes time but its worth it. When you make the call please spend time listing all the bookies you want to exclude from. Not just a few in your area do a full list and go 30 miles radius of where you live. If that’s 100 bookies brilliant. Just to let you know i have 325 on my self exclusion. After that register with GAMSTOP and ban your self from all casino’s and adult gaming centre’s.

Girth your not a tit, gambling got the better of you. Now you can take back control of your life and look forward to the future. I promise you this you will feel better sooner rather then later. Good luck my friend keep me posted.

[th themadchef WANTED $23 Outlaw]

Hi Girth i am so sorry to read your post. I know gambling should be fun but it is an addiction that can and will destroy you until you take back control. I have learned the hard way, i am not judging you by calling you a tit or a plank its not the thing to do. What i can say is honesty is the best policy you need to sit down and tell your wife before its too late. If you want to talk send me your email and i will message you there.

Take care and remember be honest

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argyl53 wrote:

Green2711 wrote:

Spot on! Is Mr B banned for life or is it a 1 week ban?

No idea but may I take this golden opportunity to clarify I don’t work in the gambling industry, I have no professional connection to that industry, slots are random, compulsive gamblers (including me) must accept some personal responsibility for their actions if they want any hope of recovery and my only motivation for calling out conspiracist bullshit is my personal aversion to bullshit.

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Maaaaaaaaaaaaaan, that felt good ?

bigbucks1983 wrote:

Daddy has spoken!! Nice one big man, hopefully that’s the end of it.

Personally im just trying to avoid having a punt Friday when i get paid. Can feel that nagging itch for the first time in a long time. Think it will be playing with the little one, trying to get down the driving range and leaving the bank card at home!!!

Hope everyone is good.

Hi Argyl53 i enjoyed reading your comment earlier, have a look at my post from today, maybe you can relate to it.

[th themadchef WANTED $23 Outlaw]

Just a quick message to say hi and thanks to Haz40 and BishMan for replying to my post, and sharing there pitfalls within gambling. It has given me confidence to share even more of my story. I know all post’s are moderated and check before going live however if there is a few more people wanting to get involved within my story whether or not it helps people or they know someone who has a problem, i was thinking of holding a live WhattsApp conference call so we can chat openly. How do you all feel about that?

I will add more on my story tomorrow.

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